Levi J. Bobbitt - The Buzz Blog: My Friends

Monday, November 26, 2007

My Friends

I received a text message this morning from a friend of a friend. I thought I might clarify some things in another post.

My friends are my lifeline. Especially when I have moved to a new area, I have found myself leaning on them more than ever... even more so now that I've been battling cancer once again. The friends I mentioned, went far above the call of duty and helped me out. I in no way wanted to discount them by mentioning the help I got from my folks. I understand, a friend can only do so much... and actually what I meant to say is they did so much. I wouldn't have known what to do with myself if it wasn't for them.

I have to say, in the past my friends have been as helpful as parents and close relatives. I consider my friends my family.

I also want everyone to know, I have been speaking of my illness a lot lately. It inevitably has been in most of my conversations. Those who know me, know it's not in my character to talk so much about myself. I suppose I've been left with no choice, because it's what I see everyday when I wake up, but the truth is, in a normal state -- I'm a selfless person 364 days a year. Those who know me, know that. So, please know that I'm not trying to bury you in the details of my battle with cancer, it just has unfortunately been at the forefront of my life now. And once it's gone, I know my friends, family, and acquaintances will be getting a lot more of the regular 'me' once again.

One more thing, I've had cancer before, and unlike before, this time I was not scared...

-LB

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9-5-08

When I was a senior in high school my class made waves across the state of Oregon when they decided to give up their Senior Class Trip to donate to me for medical expenses. As you can imagine, this act of generosity did not go unnoticed; finding itself in several newspapers, radio spots, and even on television. I have been working on placing some of the past newspaper articles here on my blog. Check them out!

CANCER HISTORY

I have had cancer two times (and am now battling it a third), the first time in 1997 it was Non-Hodgkin's Lymphoma where part of my lymph node was removed and I had several rounds of chemotherapy to kill cancer which was quickly spreading across my body. This time in my life was significant in that I was a senior in high school. It made state and regional headlines when my class decided to give up their treasury to go on a senior trip in order to help me with medical expenses. We ended up going on a trip after all because of the people around the state who decided to donate because they were so touched by what the class did.

The second time I had cutaneous T-Cell Lymphoma (diagnosed October 2007), this was treated with 21 rounds of radiation. It created horrible blisters on my foot and caused my entire body to swell. I missed numerous days of work at my job and none of this was expected. By December 2007 I had beaten this with all of the cancer gone.

In July 2008, my left leg began swelling -- this soon turned to pain. At first I thought I had just pulled my groin. This turned out not to be the case as a CT and my oncologist have confirmed that I have lymphoma in my upper left leg. Surgery and a treatment plan will occur in August 2008-on.

I don't take any day for granted anymore, knowing my days are numbered on this earth.

Christian Ambroson

Christian Ambroson

Christian Ambroson, my best friend (of two), is attending University of Steubenville, is one of my lifetime friends and was a regular at my house when I lived in Joseph. I've known him ever since he moved to Joseph from Lake Oswego. I surprisingly have a lot in common with him because I am a lot more like a city person in a small town. Christian felt some culture shock when he first moved to Joseph, but has adapted. It's great to have my good buddy close to home. Though he will spend some time in Joseph with his folks, he will also visit western Oregon during his breaks from Ohio. I look forward to seeing "Vern" when he comes home for the holidays. He and I drove his car back from Oregon to Ohio last spring. It was a long trip, but a trip of a lifetime, a trip of bonding between two good friends.

Sterling Shetler

Sterling Shetler

Mr. Shetler is my other best guy friend. He and I became a lot closer when everyone disappered from the county. Though, I am no better now that I've taken off as well... I do sincerely hope Sterling and I remain good friends. This is a guy who would do anything for you, and even though he's a bit of a hard ass, he has a heart of gold and is a truley loyal friend who I do not take for granted. I even may have him convinced to come to this side of the state to see me once in a while, and if you know him that is unheard of! But he'll have to trust me that the "wet side" isn't all that bad. Sterling taught me to get outside and enjoy life when I owned my computer business. He is probably one of the reasons I stayed half way sane. He's got a 'get er done' attitude and is a riot to be around when he's on a roll.

Antoun Kehdi

This has got to be one of the coolest kids I know. Antoun works for the Oregon Employment Department. Originally, he worked for the ODOT Rail Division (just upstairs from where I work). I met him through my pal Jonathan at work about seven months ago. Since then he and I hang out on almost a daily basis. People at work call him, Jonathan, and I "trouble." Mostly we blame it on Antoun's "shifty-ness." But the truth is Antoun is a really cool guy that we joke way too much about... he's one of the nicest people I know and a good workout buddy too. Now that Antoun is in Eugene, Jonathan and I don't get to see him as much. He was part of our trio and irreplacable. I still am glad I got to know him and am proud to call him one of my better friends.

Jonathan Stephens

Jonathan Stephens

What can I say about this kid? Well... he's a pretty cool guy that I just met here in Salem not too long ago. In fact only months ago we were strangers, and now we are good friends because of a little place I like to call ODOT. Yeah, we work together and probably see each other at least 8 hours a day if not more. But he's not just a coworker, he's quickly becoming one of my better friends and just a cool 'doood' to hang out with. Interestingly enough, he has a lot of the same qualities of my best friends Christian and Sterling. In fact, when I'm back home in Joseph, I joke to Sterling and call Jonathan 'Sterling 2.' He actually reminds me more of Christian, but nevertheless believe me 'J dawg' (for lack of a better nickname) is very much his own character. I'm glad to know him, and look forward to the good times ahead!